For months, Emma had been in circles for months, trapped in a whirlwind of worry and complaints. The decision to divorce her husband was one of the hardest things she’d ever faced, and the weight of it seemed unbearable. Each day was marked by self-doubt—Was she making the right choice? Would her children be okay? Could she manage alone? This relentless worry and frustration eroded the confident woman she once was, leaving her feeling lost and uncertain.
On the day of her equine-assisted coaching session, Emma arrived weighed down by her emotional burden. I introduced her to Whisper, a strong and serene mare with a gentle yet confident presence.
I explained that horses were adept at seeing and sensing the unseen within use, sensitive to the energy and emotions people bring into their presence. And that because of this, horses often mirror what’s going on inside us.
Emma approached Whisper with tentative steps, reaching out to pet her. However, as her hand neared Whisper, the mare moved away. Confused and frustrated, Emma tried again, speaking softly, but Whisper only turned her head and stepped back further.
“What’s happening?” Emma asked, her frustration evident. “Why won’t she let me near her?”
I responded, “Whisper is communicating something to you. What do you think she might be saying?”
Emma, her voice tinged with exasperation, replied, “It seems like she wants nothing to do with me. It feels similar to how some friends who promised support have lately avoided me.”
“Why do you think Whisper is keeping her distance?” I inquired.
Struggling to control her emotions, Emma’s voice wavered as she said, “I’m sure she senses the worry and negativity that consume me right now. My life feels like it’s falling apart, and I’m overwhelmed with fear.” Tears streamed down her face, and her posture slumped as the truth she had been avoiding came to light.
“You’re right,” I said. “Whisper is sensing your energy and emotions. She’s not rejecting you; rather, she’s signaling that she doesn’t want that negativity in her space. She’s inviting you to shift your approach.”
“Shift?” Emma echoed, puzzled.
“Yes, shift,” I confirmed. “At the moment, you’re caught in a cycle of worry and being a victim of your decision to divorce. Whisper is showing you that she won’t engage with that energy. She’s offering you the opportunity to change your approach. Instead of focusing on what’s wrong, consider what you can create from this situation. What if you viewed the divorce not as something happening to you, but as a choice leading you toward the life your soul desires?”
As Emma absorbed these words, she began to see herself more as the creator of her own story. The divorce, though challenging, was a step she needed to take, not something to fear. With a deep breath, she released her worries and shifted her focus to what she truly wanted—a life of peace, freedom, and fulfillment.
When Emma opened her eyes, she saw a change in Whisper too. The mare watched her with attentive ears and a relaxed posture. Emma approached Whisper once more, now radiating a different energy. Filled with the excitement of the possibilities that lay before her, she extended her hand, and Whisper lowered her head, allowing Emma to gently stroke her mane. A profound sense of calm washed over Emma, a feeling she had been missing for months.
The connection with Whisper deepened, and Emma realized that by letting go of her victim mentality, she had embraced the change she needed. Whisper had guided her to see that she could create the life she desired by focusing on the present and making empowered decisions.
As Emma left the arena that day, she carried with her a newfound sense of empowerment. The divorce was still a reality, but it no longer felt like an insurmountable obstacle. Instead, it was a doorway to the life she was choosing to create. Emma knew, with renewed clarity, that she had the strength to walk through it.
If you’re feeling trapped by worry, doubt, or uncertainty, during a time of major life transitions, remember that you have the power to shift your perspective and reclaim your strength. Just as Emma found clarity and empowerment through her connection with Whisper, you too can discover the path that leads to the life your soul desires.
Are you ready to take that first step? Join us for an equine-assisted coaching session and experience the transformative power of partnering with a horse. Let us help you reconnect with your inner strength and guide you toward creating a life of peace, freedom, and fulfillment.
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